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March 31, 2006
Question: i went out with this guy for 8 months. he said he loved me, but he has treated me different in front of his friends. We broke up in february. I haven´t talked to him but he called me out of the blue at 3am to say he was thinking about me and wants to talk. Why is he trying to get back in my life when clearly we have nothing to do with each other?
ANSWER: If you guess that one wrong, you can win first place in the loser’s club. What he wants is no good for you. His “second” thoughts are not about your needs, they’re about his. You are still “second” to him – second to his wants and needs. Continue to leave him alone.
Wizard
March 31, 2006
Question: im going out with this guy and we met in a chat room. we hit it off pretty well. we had a lot in common. the next thing i knew we gave each other our cell numbers. A couple of days passed by and then he called me. i had no clue what to say. then we started talking as if we were best friends!!! we talked all night and the first night we talked
he asked me if i was his and right before i was about to answer the power in my house went out. I called him later and then these words came out of my mouth "im yours." now on the 27th one month has gone by and i said to myself "this was the best month of my life" and then when i think about it, it was like any other month. it wasnt great at all. we had two fights. the first one lasted like 2 minutes, then the second one lasted 1day. i love him so much but im tired of all these fights. what should i do? cause im so confused. im just afraid if i do then i might want him back, and if we do get back together im afraid the whole scenario will happen again.
ANSWER: A truly good date would not have you wondering if it was any good. You are not confused – your best instinct is telling you that the whole scenario might happen again. Your instinct is right.
Take it as a good experience and keep it as an experience only. Don’t repeat it. Having learned from it, your next date with another guy will be that much better.
Wizard
March 31, 2006
Question: i have been off and on with this guy. right now we are not together; but he wants us to get back together. i dont know if i want to get back with him. what if he breaks my heart again?
ANSWER: He might very well break your heart again. You must want him back so much that you are willing to take that risk. If you do not want him that much, you should not do it.
Wizard
March 31, 2006
Question: I've known this guy named Mark for 5 years. I just got out of a three year relationship, and ran into Mark back in my hometown. He asked me out. We've been out a few times. I don't feel like I'm ready for another committed relationship yet though. I've told him this but he's very persistent and told me he has "strong feelings" for me.
ANSWER: Follow your instinct. Tell him to cool it down. Date him less often. See what follows.
Don’t let him dictate when you are ready. That is your choice alone.
Wizard
March 30, 2006
Question: my boyfriend was cheatin' on girls tons of times before being with me. he is sometimes a very insensitive jerk and other times he is the sweetest guy ever...split personality? i don't know what 2 do...help!
ANSWER: If he’s cheatin’ on you, and you feel cheated, you should end it. Nothing about split personality here.
If the insensitive jerk is bothersome to you, you should end it. If the sweetest guy ever makes up for the insensitive jerk enough for you to still want him, then it’s okay. A lot of guys are both ways – insensitive and the sweetest.
If the split in your personality comes from the axe in his personality, end it. If you’re a good fit for this and you don’t mind it, no problem.
Wizard
March 30, 2006
Question: ok. Should I dump my boyfriend? We have been together about a month and a half (i’ve never had anything last until 2 months) and at first it was PERFECT. He called me all the time, gave me attention, treated me like a goddess. We spent a lot of time together. Even our first kiss was great. Then he went to Cali for a week with his family. Ever since he came back, he’s been acting strangely. He didn't call as much, when we hung out he always called his friends and talked to them...left me hanging. Then he stopped saying "I love you" when we talked on the phone. Now he doesn’t call, he spends all his time with his friends, and he is going to prom with another girl (he claims to have made these plans before he met me). I’m angry and hurt and jealous all at the same time. My best friend says dump him. I’m so confused. I just need some help.
ANSWER: Your best friend is right.
You’ll always feel angry and hurt if you let yourself dwell on this. Find a new boyfriend (many good guys are out there) and learn to enjoy yourself again.
No need to feel jealous. This guy was not right for you and therefore cannot be a great loss to you.
Wizard
March 28, 2006
Question: My boyfriend and I have been together for about 7 months. He finally told me he loves me about a month ago (at least a month after i had first said it to him).
A few weeks ago I got to know a guy I've been attracted to for a long time. We really hit it off and have lots of fun every time we're together. My bf and I are having problems and I would rather break up and start seeing the new guy.
The problem is I've become close friends with my bf's friends. They are fiercely loyal and I don't want to cross them, but I want to be happy.
What do i do?
ANSWER: Be happy and dump him. His friends live in the same world we do – hence they know that all dating relationships end in a dump. You’re not married. Life is to be lived and enjoyed.
Wizard
March 28, 2006
Question: Hi, my name is April and I have been dating this guy for 5 months. He has done things that make me wonder about him. For example when I don’t answer my phone he comes to my house. He lives half an hour away from me. Another time he came by and a
male friend was there. Let me also remind you that he is only a friend that I have known for three years and we are very close that we consider ourselves best friends. He came and knocked on my door and I would not open the door. So I thought he would leave and he did not. I started to worry because he had once told me that a woman is not suppose to have a male friend unless it is their boyfriend and that there is no reason that a girl should have a guy as a friend. I told my friend not to answer the door when he told me he would speak to the guy I am seeing. He also had heard him talking to me. He had stood outside my apartment all night claiming that he had heard us having sex and all. We had not done any of the things that he had claimed we did. He call . . . .
ANSWER: Another abrupt ending to a sordid situation. Dump this guy immediately.
Wizard
March 28, 2006
Question: He follows me and keeps an eye on me all the time. He gets violent at times but gives me lots of money
ANSWER: Bad and sad news. “Poof!” No magic dragon fixes that.
Wizard
March 28, 2006
Question: Hi. I need some advice whether or not I should continue to date this guy that I am seeing. I had known this guy for about 1 ½ almost going on 2. We always talk and we have good chemistry and all. We have been dating since January of this year. He just told me that his dreams where to get married and see him and his wife
have their first child. I have two kids already and he had known that from the beginning since we met. He wants to get married and have children. He also said you never know what can happen. But I think he is unsure and at the same time he does not want to waste my time if it doesn’t work out. He thinks also about my kids and their feelings as well. (He has not met my kids either). I was with him this weekend and my children’s father had called me about 15 times and the guy started thinking about the situation with my children’s father calling me so many times and realized what he would have to deal with. I have told him about the situation with my children’s father and we h . . . .
ANSWER: This was looking like it was a tangled mess, and yet it isn’t, if one reads it carefully. The wizard knows not why the message ends and no further attempt was made to finish it.
The mother and her children are no longer with the father. He should remain involved in the lives of his children but he should not interfere with the mother’s effort to make a life of her own. That life includes relationships with other men.
The wizard sends this woman all the best wishes.
Wizard
March 28, 2006
Question: I'm 16 and have never had a boyfriend. I haven't even started going out with this guy yet, but he likes me. However, he's just a friend. I've known him for about 5 weeks or something, and he is funny and nice. But I have no feelings towards him. He asked me if i wanted to 'catch up' on the weekend. I said yes, because I didn't want to be mean. I am pretty shy, and I don't know how to tell him I just want to be friends. Please help!
ANSWER: You will come across many guys who want to date you. Be aware that a guy who asks you to “catch up” on the weekend is looking for a date, nothing less. That means he is in hormonal bliss and wants in the future to share much more with you than talk.
You will need to get used to saying something like, “No, thank you, I’m really not interested.” If you say “No, thank you, I’m really not interested” he knows you do not want to go on a date.
If you want to date him as a boyfriend, show your enthusiasm by simply saying “yes.” He needs no more than that to be thoroughly elated.
This is not playing “hard to get” as you do with some guys you might date in the future. This is a “no” because in fact you do not want to date. Friendships will evolve naturally (and nicely) in the stands without you having to get onto the playing field.
You are not mean to say no. You are being nice to not want to say no, but in this world trying to be nice like that can get you meanness you never intended. Be safe. See him, if you want a friendship, in groups of friends (not a shared date with another girl and guy) like at a party, concert, play, shopping at the mall, and at school.
Wizard
March 27, 2006
Question: I have been seeing this guy for about 2 months. I am starting to like him a lot and he seems to like me too. but sometimes I just don't think he uses his head. it's like he forgets about me. should i dump him now or give him a chance?
ANSWER: Guys sometimes are like that. Thick in the noggin. Give him a chance. Maybe ask him, “Are you forgetting about me?” If he’s on the ball enough to know he’s got a great girlfriend, he’ll come out of his dumbness and say something useful.
Wizard
March 25, 2006
Question: I am in 6th grade and i have a perfect boyfriend. he’s strong, hot, smart, rich, and knows how to treat a girl, but he has 2 problems. one, he acts really immature around his friends and always gets in trouble at school. and our biggest problem is we never talk. we are really shy around each other. how do we get unshy and talk and have a normal conversation?
ANSWER: Talk about things you both like. The perfect boyfriend will open up in conversation if you both like the same thing you are talking about. If you go on a date to see and event, talk about the event. That should get things started.
But your first problem may be bigger than you think. Immature is natural for a 6th grade boy, but he shouldn’t be so immature to be getting into trouble – unless it’s foolish trouble, the kind of trouble that shouldn’t trouble you about his morals or fitness to be your perfect boyfriend.
Wizard
March 23, 2006
Question: Me and my b/f have been together for 7 months. We have been fighting everyday for the past 2 months! I am miserable! I have lost so much weight worrying about him. He acts like he loves me, but whenever he gets around his guys, he ignores me! I am tired of it! He told me today that he has wasted the past 2 months and then calls me and says he is sorry and didn't mean any of it! I really love him, but I am the only one showing that I care and I am the only one putting anything into this relationship! I can't be without him though! He is the only one I have. He is my best friend. If we break up I will be all alone! Please help me!! I need to know what to do!
ANSWER: The wizard worries about you! You should be worried about you, not him! Listen to yourself. You have been fighting for the past 2 months and you are miserable. Yes, the wizard understands that you do not want a good thing to come to an end and that you would like him to care for you and return to the way it was in the beginning. It won’t happen.
You are on a tether so thin it will break. When it breaks, you should be above safe ground for an easy fall. In fact, you should get yourself above a good landing point and cut the tether yourself.
The right boyfriend for you will not say after seven months that he has wasted the past two months, and then say he is sorry and didn’t mean any of it. That is hogwash! It’s hoggish, piggish, brutish. He’s selfish and deserves mud for meal.
OR he’s afraid of telling you the truth because he doesn’t want to hurt you. But, of course, if that is true he actually hurts you even more.
You need to break up with him and find the boyfriend who values you and will stay devoted to you.
Wizard
March 23, 2006
Question: My guy said "he needs space" but yet we hardly ever talk. I'm not good enough for him. But it makes me want him more. He knows me inside out and I know him equally. HELP ME!
ANSWER: The wizard thinks your boyfriend is dropping heavy hints. Remember that you are dating, not married, and be prepared that he might want to date someone else, or just end the relationship. You should be looking for another guy.
You should not feel hurt or less than the great person you are. The comment that you are not good enough for him – which the wizard believes he said, not you – is nasty and unnecessary. It suggests the opposite: he is not good enough for you.
Wizard
March 23, 2006
Question: i feel like my relationship after 8 months is fading, and im the culprit. I dont know if I really love my boyfriend who's seven years older than me, and im 19. I feel like its too intense, and that theres something missing.
ANSWER: Only one reason is good enough to dump your boyfriend. You have given six reasons. You really should get out of this relationship.
Wizard
March 20, 2006
Question: My friend has been in a relationship for about 9 years and has a 4 year old son with her BF. I've known my friend for just under 3 years and in the course of the 3 years, her BF has cheated on her at least once, but it appears as though it's been more like 3. The BF has never severed ties with an ex and he's even been caught going to Las Vegas with her. He
denies anything ever happened. My friend is devastated and always blames herself. Finally, I told her to wake up. Never before have I said anything to her. I just listen and offer her my ear and shoulder. However, it's driving me nuts that she chooses to believe his lies and forgives him. I don't want to have any conflicts with my friend, but enough already. What advise can you give me? Should I go back to listening and not saying a word? It's just so bothersome that she is truly a great person and is cheated on time and time again. I just want to be a good friend and help her.
ANSWER: The wizard commands you to give your unwavering attention to genuine wisdom from the deepest understanding.
Your friend is in good luck to have such a good friend as you.
You should encourage and support her. At the same time, you must be attentive to her needs, fears, anxieties, and a long list of other emotions. Though at times the advice you feel a need to give to your friend will seem simple, in truth the scenario your friend lives in is not so easy or simple.
For example, perhaps she really does know he’s lying but tells you she believes him. Perhaps she really does not want to forgive him, and maybe in her mind she doesn’t, but she acts like she does. Maybe when she blames herself, the blame runs deep about something you have no knowledge about. Further complicating the mix, a four year old child needs love and attention from both parents.
The wizard has no doubt that she is a truly great person, as you said, and has no doubt that you too are a truly great person. Unfortunately, the time may not be right for the two great persons to figure it all out and solve it. The best judge of that is your friend, not you.
You should continue to offer your friend your ear and shoulder. This is immensely valuable. The wizard recommends against challenging your friend’s expressed choice of believing and forgiving. Let her come around to that on her own, and when that happens you will be there still to encourage and support her.
Don’t let this create a conflict between you and your friend. She needs your support, not your inquisition. Remember – this is not about you, this is about your friend.
The wizard thinks your friend worries and thinks about so much, you will make it harder for her if you challenge the choice she has been making. Yes, the wizard thinks she is not so unclear in her mind, just laden with burden. Help her with your ear and shoulder.
Wizard
March 20, 2006
Question: I invited a guy I recently met to spent the whole weekend, after he had surgery on his shoulder. I bought all kinds of food and wine to make it a special weekend. He came over Friday and it was great, but informed me he had to work Saturday around 1pm. Even Saturday morning was great. Saturday evening rolled around about 9:30pm and he called saying he was going to his buddy’s house to hang out, you know the kind of guys that give you crap because you picked the girl over the guys. Is this guy a real weenie or what? I just let him know that I don't play that game and wouldn't date him exclusively. Was I wrong?
ANSWER: He’s a weenie. He should know better to respond to your warm generosity with a cold shouldered “I can’t make it” because he’s with the guys. What a great opportunity he had for romance and adventure. He’s a sap, a dunce, and in this situation, a pile of dirt.
However, sometimes a guy who made a mistake like this will figure it out, and he becomes much better at making good choices. But that only happens when he truly thinks the world of you.
The wizard thinks you were not wrong.
Wizard
March 20, 2006
Question: I want to dump my boyfriend but he has no idea that I'm feeling this way. As far as he is concerned everything is going great, but I can't bring myself to tell him otherwise. The fact is that he is too clingy so that now whenever he touches me I cringe. He also has this mild personality disorder which affects his ability to feel certain emotions slightly, and I have no idea how he will react. What should I do???
ANSWER: Stop dating him. Be too busy when he calls for a date. Generally avoid him, so he can’t get near enough to be clingy. He should get the idea eventually that the candle in this affair has burned out. If he continues to pursue you, you can leave him a note, or send a letter, or if he is on the telephone or in hearing range, just tell him you don’t want to date him any more.
If he still pursues you, he is a menace, a pest, and potentially a dangerous soul. He will be stalking you at that point, and more serious measures should be taken, including getting help from teachers, parents, and friends.
Wish you well.
Wizard
March 17, 2006
Question: Hi, i have been with my bf for just over a week now. he takes drugs and the girls who do take them he prefers to be with, and whenever its me on my own and them, he will go to them. I always have to make the first move. he never tells me how much he likes me. ive told my mates and they say i should wait a while and see how it goes. im really confused and do not know what to do. i dont know if he likes them (fancy) or just prefers to be with them to take drugs? please help me.
many thx.
ANSWER: Your boyfriend’s priorities do not include you. You should dump him.
If this answer appears too short for your problem, consider that the wizard does not dabble in medicinal brews, spell-making concoctions, and magical wands. Reality is the wizard’s primary concern. A full appreciation of the real situation, compared with experience unmatched anywhere in the world, is the wizard’s foundation of wisdom.
Your week-long boyfriend is a weak excuse for a boyfriend. He’s got it all wrong. You’ve got the intuition to notice it before it gets any worse. End it here.
Wizard
March 16, 2006
Question: I have been seeing my boyfriend for 9 months now and we love each other so much, but there is a slight problem. He is changing to a goth/emo. And the other day he told me that he is bisexual. It has really upset me, and it annoys me to think that he's a goth/emo and bi because some of his friends are. He goes on this website with lots of goths on, or he is just attention seeking. I've asked him about it, and he just said he doesn’t know why he is. I've also told him it really upsets me, but he has hardly changed a thing. In fact he's got a lot worse. He has started to paint his nails with black nail varnish, and he is growing his hair, to a kind of emo hair style. I need some advice desperately. Should I stay with him, or should I leave?
ANSWER: Your boyfriend’s recent change upsets you, it annoys you, and when you told him that it upsets you, he says he doesn’t know why he has changed and he hasn’t done anything about it.
These constitute sufficient reason for a dump.
Wizard
March 14, 2006
Question: My boyfriend has cheated on me in the past. I dumped him and we ended up working it out and getting back together. Here it is a year later and now I find out he is being accused of dating/sleeping with an underage girl. He did not directly tell me. I put 2 and 2 together. He swears he didn't do anything. But I am having a hard time believing him.
ANSWER: If the 2 and 2 truly add up to your conclusion, then the dump is inevitable – a fact to be reckoned with – a point of no return – for your boyfriend. But your question implies some doubt and you should resolve the doubt before making the conclusion.
Wizard
March 14, 2006
Question: My boyfriend and I have been together for six months. We have a lot in common and really enjoy each other’s company. He has often said that no one has treated him as well and with as much love as I do, I'm the one who has made him happy. But we row regularly, and aggressively, under the influence of alcohol. Sometimes he just walks away after a row. He won't really speak to me after the last row now. He said he wants time to himself, to think about his life and what he wants. But he's being so cold. I'm basically waiting to find out if he wants me. He's told me before he thinks our rows are his fault and he's always seemed sorry for hurting me afterward. Maybe we have just run our course. Surely putting me through this is reason enough to finish with him? But it doesn't change how much I love him. Please advise.
ANSWER: The wizard hopes the drinking and aggressive behavior is not yours. If it is you, and if you love him, you should oust your demons and stop drinking.
If it is your boyfriend, then you should reconsider how committed you will let yourself get to a guy who drinks too much and fights with you.
Your love is a beautiful thing – and so often the wizard has been witness to love spent on people who cannot handle it, who waste it or throw it away. Such a gem-gorgeous thing you own – love – and it takes courage, commitment, and sacrifice to love. But you must be careful about letting yourself become a victim. You’ve been together six months. That may be enough love spent.
Wizard
March 14, 2006
Question: I have been dating this guy for almost a year now. Time and again he will propose marriage to me and disappears without mentioning the . . . .
ANSWER: Got interrupted. The wizard thinks he just proposed.
Wizard
March 14, 2006
Question: I recently made plans with a guy that I've been dating for a little over a month. As soon as I left the house to meet with him he called me and told me that he'd made last minute plans to hang with his room-mate and some other (girl) friends. I have already started ignoring his calls, but am I justified?
ANSWER: Yes indeed.
Wizard
March 13, 2006
Question: I kind of have had a crush on this guy Dustin, but I'm going out with Frank, who I've kind of (well, have) lost feelings for. I really like Dustin a lot, and I'm almost positive he likes me, but I don't want Frank or anyone else to think that I'm dumping Frank for Dustin since Frank’s wicked mean to me so I was thinking of it to begin with....so what do I do?
ANSWER: If Frank is wicked mean to you, he must be dumped, regardless of Dustin. So you dump Frank immediately, and you needn’t say anything about Dustin. Then, after all that, well, you’re available . . . .
Wizard
March 13, 2006
Question: OOOk here’s the thing, I'm dating this guy and he’s really nice and cute and everything and there's a few reasons why I've been thinking I kind of want to dump him. 1) He doesn't talk much so it makes it a little awkward to be out with him, 2) I kind of like this other guy. What should i do and how should I tell him I don’t want to be with him any more? Please help me.
ANSWER: Tell him he’s really nice and cute but you don’t want to date any more. Tell him it’s not that he’s a bad guy or does anything wrong – you’d just like to move on.
If he’s worth his salt, he’ll accept it and move on too.
Wizard
March 12, 2006
Question: He is a stoner... we talk on the phone until 2AM. He gets annoying!
What should I do?
ANSWER: Any time you think your boyfriend is annoying it’s time for a dump, even if he doesn’t deserve it. No relationship is a good one of either person is an annoyance to the other and it doesn’t matter how justified the annoyed person is.
Wizard
March 9, 2006
Question: He stood me up twice in a week. Should I dump him?
ANSWER: Of course.
Wizard
March 9, 2006
Question: What should I do with a guy that has a wonderful personality and treats me with respect, but there is no spark when he kisses me? Maybe I am just scared.
ANSWER: Maybe. If you enjoy being with him, give it a little time. If you are scared, that will wither away in time.
Wizard
March 9, 2006
Question: I have been in this relationship since 1998. The guy and me have two businesses together. However I just found out that he has a very very colorful past with the police. I also just found out that he is currently using drugs! But he will not admit it to me. Says that i don’t know what i am talking about. He has taken a lot of money from the businesses for his habit. We own a house together and this whole thing is a big mess and he told me that if i leave he will make me sink. Which i believe he could. He is a compulsive liar, cheat, and drug user. We are starting to fall behind in our bills and he has said it is because of me. That i am just spending the money and not paying the bills, which is not true! I am afraid of him. I don’t know where to go or what to do.
ANSWER: You should dump him – that much is most evident.
However, you have several legal tie-ups that might make things more complicated than the simple dump. You need to consult with an attorney in your area about the businesses, the house jointly owned, and the risks you face with drugs and a potentially abusive partner.
The dump can wait. See the lawyer, pronto!
Wizard
March 8, 2006
Question: I am almost two years with my boyfriend, and he is very sweet and i love him, but I am not sure how much because i cheated on him like two times and i tried to dump him. but he doesn’t want to be dumped and I am still with him and i fell very bad of the things i have done. what can i do....
ANSWER: You have a forgiving boyfriend and you say that you love him.
You should thank him for being forgiving of you and stay with him without cheating and dumping, so long as you continue to love him.
Wizard
March 8, 2006
Question: I have been dating this guy for 1 year and 6 months. We were great friends before all of this but things just aren’t what they were and he is VERY verbally abusive, and on top of it all I AM 6 MONTHS PREGNANT! I told him to give up all the smoking pot and stuff but I think he still does it behind my back. I want to leave but in the least dramatic way because every time we break up and make up the same cycle over and over which has became very boring. HELP!!! How do I break it to him gently without so much drama that it’s over!!??
ANSWER: Your drama is just beginning if you are pregnant and if he is the father. You should seek some counseling on how to handle the involvement of the father with the child, and without entering the same cycle over and over again.
You will need support from family and friends. Seek them out now, and good luck.
Remember that your child has had nothing to do with any of this trouble, and deserves a happy, healthy, rewarding relationship with both parents in a supportive and nurturing environment.
Wizard
March 8, 2006
Question: so ive been with this guy that was my friend like four years before i became his girlfriend and been his girlfriend for one month. but he pays more attention to his friends. he is good to me sometimes but he says to others that he is waiting for me to break it up. should i? but then there's the Prom and i bought the dress and ticket with him.
ANSWER: If you are able to still have a good time with him, and if he still is good to you at times, you can still go to the prom with him in hopes of having a good time.
But if you can’t have a good time with him, you should go with someone else, even if it’s just a friend.
When you break up with him, do it because you want to. That he is waiting for you to break it up is not a good reason. But if he says that to his friends in front of you, his having said that in front of you is a good reason.
Wizard
March 5, 2006
Question: I had been dating this guy for 3 - 4 months. There was a situation where my friend had told him I was seeing someone else and he should leave me. I was no longer seeing that other person. A couple of weeks later, she tells me that the guy I am seeing said I did not want her coming by when I was babysitting for her, she and her kids eat all the food in my house, they destroy my belongings and make a
mess in my apt, and she does not help. Also that he and I made plans to move in together and her coming around constantly would have to stop. I had not said any of this. When I had confronted him he admitted he told her and I had not said anything. He told me that she said that unless he told her about anything that I had said about her that she would not tell him anything about me. He also had told me he might possibly be jealous because I spent more time with her than I do with him. She said that as long as I am with him she will only know me as hi and bye. I don’t know what to do. Please help.
ANSWER: All the he’s and she’s make it more complicated than it really is. She and he deserve each other. At least then they hopefully will ruin only each other. If you dump him (look at the tangled mess you avoid) and let him get it on with her, she’ll be happier – for a while. And, by the way, don’t confide in her, ever.
If she does the same with your next boyfriend, you’ll rediscover her destructive qualities and dump her as a friend.
Wizard
March 4, 2006
Question: hey my name is October and my boyfriend’s name is Orrin and we just started going out for three days now and he spends no time with me. he has been flirting with people that is not me. Is he cheating on me?
ANSWER: Impossible to know for sure, but after only three days, and he’s already flirting with others, and he spends no time with you – well, if he hasn’t dumped you yet, you should dump him.
Wizard
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